不一样的爸爸,我是山姆影评

by admin on 2019年11月16日

这部电影讲的是一个智商只有七岁的爸爸在一次意外情况下失去了自己女儿的抚养权,他在世人的偏见下靠着朋友和律师的支持争夺回自己的抚养权的故事
也许是因为自身没有经历过这种直直白白的父爱,所以很多幕场景都牵动着我的心
在Sam下了班急着去看自己刚出生的女儿时,他数着电梯到达的每一层
他和Lucy被他收留的女人抛弃了 他抱着孩子在街边的无奈 one way的路牌
却暗示着这他们父女俩的无处可去 他想给女儿买双鞋 但是却缺了10多美元
于是他的朋友(和他一样也是弱智)就一起凑钱 售货员的眼睛里都充满泪水
最后他们还单纯的为能拿到气球开心
Sam的律师Rita由原先的不情愿为Sam当律师到被Sam感动 努力帮助Sam争取抚养权
影片中多次拍摄
那种身为父亲可是因为自己对事物的理解力不够,不能用语言表达自己的无奈,那种无奈的眼神
看的本宝宝真是 看到一次就哗哗的落泪
影片中Sam因经历了一次又一次的失败,给自己建立了一面可以算是看了都觉得marvelous的纸墙
他说 I tried,I tried hard! But you don’t know what it’s like when you
try and you try and you try and you don’t ever get there. Because you
were born perfect, and I was born like this! And people like you don’t
know, you don’t know what it’s like to get hurted , because you don’t
have feelings. People like you don’t feel anything. 那般的歇斯底里
真的不是用我苍白的语言能描述的 结局是总是好的
以最后Lucy球赛的胜利来暗示Sam争夺到抚养权的胜利

本片讲述的是一个智障爸爸于福利机构争夺女儿的抚养权的故事,过程很坎坷很虐心,结局当然是美好的,小孩的演技真是太好了,长的灰常漂亮,而且不是一般可爱。
片中一群智障一块凑钱给Lucy买鞋然后一起拿着气球排排过马路的情节真是好有爱啊。一个智障,其实比大部分家长更懂得如何去爱自己的小孩,Lucy其实就是男主的全部,他花尽所有心思来呵护她,对Lucy倾注了全身心的爱。跟小孩相处,要的是用心,跟智力无关。父亲对女儿的爱,永不止息。
Lucy说爸爸Different,和其他爸爸不一样,确实,既是智障,同时又能带给很多爸爸不能给女儿的东西,仅仅只是不同而已。
男主在律师家时好好地教育了律师一番:You’re so lucky.You get to play with
Willy any time you want.He doesn’t want to play with me.Yes,he
does.Yes,he does.He does.He thinks you don’t want to play,maybe.That’s
ridiculous.Of course I
do.为人父母,很多很都不知道如何做好一个好父亲,好母亲,在这部片子中,我们能得到很好的答案。小孩不会不喜欢你,只是你觉着他不喜欢你,你表现出你尊重他,你爱他,你喜欢和他一起玩,他就会离不开你,其实你才是他们心中最坚实的依靠。男主的真诚深深打动了律师,在他换上西装时,甚至深深被他的魅力迷住了!
Lucy被带走时,电影近乎是无声的,台词全都没显示出来,浓浓地渲染了离别的凄凉,律师在旁边都没感动的哭了。男主近乎崩溃,一个人游走在黑夜的大街上。之后有一次偷偷去看过Lucy,却不敢见她。然后就是一个人默默地把自己关在屋里,谁都不理会,陷入了自闭。Yeah,but
I tried! I tried hard! You don’t know what it’s like when you try…and
you try and you try and you don’t ever get there! Because you were born
perfect,and I was born like this! People like you don’t know what it’s
like to get hurted…because yo don’t have
feelings.任何人,在极度受挫的情况下,都会把情绪宣泄给别人,怨天尤人,抱怨身边所有的不公,这时,他需要有人拉他一把!
最后律师说:I worry that I’ve gotten more out of this relationship than
you.其实在他们相处的过程中,律师确实帮助了男主很多,而律师从他那也学会了很多。每个人,都可以成为别人的老师,在这段关系中,律师从男主身上学到了很多她一直没有想明白的,却是很简单的事。有时,我们忙于各种思考,却忘了很多时候,我们只需要作出一个最简单的决定。
总之,这部片子就是感动自己,感动他人,治愈系电影。

Now I can see those kind eyes.

Sam:Yeah, but I tried! I tried hard!
Rita:Try harder!
Sam:Yeah, but you don’t know!
You don’t know what it’s like when you try and you try and you try and
you don’t ever get there!
Because you were born perfect, and I was born like this! And you’re
perfect!
Rita:Is that right?
Sam:You don’t know what it’s like to get hurted.. because you don’t have
feelings. People like you don’t feel anything.
Rita:You think you got the market cornered on human suffering?
Let me tell you something about people like me.
People like me feel lost and little and ugly.. and dispensable.
People like me have husbands..screwing someone else far more perfect
than me.
People like me have sons who hate them.
And I’ve screamed horrible things to him..a seven-year-old, because he
doesn’t want..to get in the car at the end of the day.
And then he looks at me with such anger..and i hate him then.
I know I’m failing you. I know I’m disappointing you. I know you
deserver better, but get in the fucking car!
Every morning, I wake up and i fail. And I look around, and everybody
seems to be pulling it off..but somehow I can’t..no matter how hard I
try.
Somehow..I’ll never be enough.
Sam:You’re enough. Yeah, you’re much more than enough.Lovely Rita.

Everybody behave Like a gentleman..because Lucy's gonna come out
here..and first impressions are very important.  
Lucy:You never even came! You never called! You forgot about me! How
coule you forget me?  
Sam:No, I didn't forget you! I would never forget you! -I hate you!  
Sam:Will you not be mad at me for one second? Because I want to tell you
one thing, OK?  
"P.s. I love you, like in the song"

Sam:But you still need to leave your husband.
Rita: My marriage isn’t so bad.
It’t just that..I’ve never lost at anything.

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